Gut Feelings

It's science that your brain and gut work together to give you feelings, call it intuition, inner sense anything you want but it's real.

My Ex Partner/Housemate

I do wonder if me been sick all the time with her and on antidepressants was my gut feeling giving me a massive warning that she was bad for me. When we first got together I had a feeling that it was a big mistake getting together with her that's why I only said I would give her and I a go. I do wonder also if anxiety and depression can interfere with your gut feeling and perhaps cover it up, perhaps that's why I stayed living with her so many years when clearly she was bad for me or perhaps anxiety and depression are part of it and I should have took action over the warning signs.

Other Times, Places And Situations

I am sure plenty of people have had times where somone, something or situations have felt wrong or good, I most certainly have. Take the trip today at the cafe where lots of people were outside and I felt so nervous, scared and yes maybe this was autism related also but my intuition just told me to get inside and relax as outside felt bad for me. My intuition when around certain people gives me lots of feelings like safety and fear while with some people I just know there bad and I keep away from them. The problems I have is when I have conflicting feelings and it's those people that can lead you into problems. If I trust my gut feeling I am normally correct in my decisions. Places, situations and people all give me these feelings and all in all I know I am better off trusting my gut feelings but if I get conflicting feelings about someone, places and situations I am also better off staying away.

Your Gut Feeling, Love And Feelings

These are connected and no I never really had positive gut feelings with any of my relationships which explains why they failed. There was a woman I liked, she made me feel happy, safe and we clearly had some kind of connection with the way she was with me and I her. I suppose your gut feelings are to be relied upon and my feelings were all good about her, more than anyone before and yet she proved to be such an uncaring, selfish, nasty women. I then must ask the question about my own gut feelings and wonder if they can go wrong? Perhaps my gut feelings are correct and it is her that is just having a really bad time with her own life, leading her to be so nasty? Perhaps she is a good person but it's her issues that are the problem and not my gut feeling. There are people who fail to feel emotions and lots of factors can effect a persons feelings such as having a genuine medical condition, a personality disorder, alcohol addiction, medication, a bad upbringing, traumatic events in life like childbirth or death of a loved one. These could effect someone's feelings. Without proper professional help these people live life in a difficult way that can lead to marital breakdowns, bad relationships and bad relations with other people.

Conclusion

It is without a doubt best to go by your gut feelings and science proves that. Autistic Spectrum Disorder is also linked to your gut which explains some of my issues like my hernia, my emotions and my anxiety. Your Gut feeling is integral to how a person navigates the world and following this instinct can certainly prevent you from people, places and situations that can cause you harm but can also lead you into something good. Feelings are to be relied upon but some people lack those feelings due to a number of possible reasons and should seek help.